The best way I can sum up all this is the “Three Post Cards” theory. I’m holding that first one in my left hand that I got way back when I was a student from “the masses” basically saying that “Yup, you’re one ugly dude. You think you’re gonna get a girl…impossible!” Like I said above, I saw it too. In my right hand I’m holding the third one from the masses saying “You’re how old and never even kissed a girl…impossible!” Do you see what I’m saying here? One says “Girl?…impossible” and the other says “No Girl?…impossible”. When was the second post card sent out? What does is say on it?

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The question the “experienced” folk like to drop is “Well why haven’t you had sex yet?” Again there’s no steps. That question is making it sound like “I ask because all you had to do is….” Is what? Someone has to like you back too don’t they? Again, you can’t make someone like you. It’s not like there’s a girlfriend isle in the market where you can go grab one, or two even, off the shelf. Then just bring them home and they’re just *yours*. If that were the case, then that question is valid: “Well why haven’t you had sex yet? I ask because all you had to do is go down to the supermarket….” Bottom line, someone has to want to too. I can’t have a girl choose to want me back, that’s all on her end. By the way I’m the involuntary celibate virgin, who wants you anyway?

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Sex is the only natural “want” in humans, it is not a “need”. Sex if you think about it is not really for *you* either. The purpose of sex if to procreate the species. The issue is that it’s been assigned a status. And if you’ve never achieved this status, you’re stigmatized. I remember some dude posting his story upon finding out his girlfriend is “still” a Virgin. He said “it’s like meeting someone who never had water in their life before” and he couldn’t understand it. I understand it, no-one ever looks at it from the virgin’s point of view.

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I’ve heard it all: Get a cool shirt (I can do that), then walk down to the club (I can do that too), then order a drink (that’s easy, so far so good). So what do you do next when you turn around away from the bartender? That’s where the “advice” gets vague: start up a conversation (Well, what you say)? Say anything…comment on things in the club or on the TV, you know. It’s sound all like trial and error, where nothing is really guaranteed. And this is what the whole “surprise” reaction is based on when finding out someone around my age is “still” a virgin? A non-guarantee?

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If you never had water before, you’re a goner. If you go long without food, you die too. If you never had sex before, what happens? If you never kissed anyone before, what happens? If you never had a girlfriend, what happens to you? If you never been to the strip bar, what happens? I’ve been to the strip bar, and what happened? Nothing. You’re fine. Personally, I’m pretty fit and in good health. But you have to keep it all to yourself because nobody wants that. It is not welcomed, anytime or anywhere.

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